??Statistics and news about violence over the world family and gender-based violence, show that each day increases the victims of this violence, and many of them unfortunately die. Without going beyond, in Argentina, in the last fortnight there were 7 cases of sprayed with alcohol and burned women, three of them died. This atrocious violence is killing women in very cruel forms, their perpetrators are arrested etc, but situations follow some time later, either the perpetrator goes free and returns to threaten or attack, or is stopped for years but we do not really know how will exit its condemnation, if cured (through therapy) or no, with which the surviving victim remains emotionally very disturbed and lives in a State of anxiety and hypervigilance that worsens their already very hurt psychological situation. And not to mention aquelllas remaining with physical footprints by chipping and scars such as burns, whereupon grapple for years of their lives in rehabilitation. Logic tells us that We must see well with who are going to share our life, and observe signs of violence is essential for talking about these cases. However love blind to these women, many are so in love that it usually first year with that man, nor give account which in the future can exert violence against her. Many do not want to see when they realize minimally of any indication, e.g. verbal violence, insults or some controls dating.
These women perhaps do not listen to the words of people who have already lived these experiences. Maybe their same mothers are warning them (because they do not want their daughters to pass pain) but not heard them. Or perhaps, and more likely, are women who grew up in a household where there was emotional, verbal violence and up physics, so that anger for having grown up there, makes them not wanting to listen to their battered mothers.