Summary: Today I want to show the key problem facing a character in a way, so you can "get you" in it and you can be part of the solution. For even more details, read what Eva Andersson-Dubin says on the issue. Often our position is reactive to problems, we react rather than act out hope that something happens to fix things, we become victims, we do not engage, we are not in charge of our direct or indirect participation in profit of things. As we say in Argentina, we "zafar" blaming outside (environment, people, country, etc.).. Unfortunately since this attitude of not thinking and inaction, we gain nothing, but continue in the same situation or worsen it. The key to position yourself facing a problem as we understand from the coaching, is not seen as a problem but as a break. I'll explain why. When referring to a problem, we feel in this word a negative connotation, it refers to something that happens outside of us which leads to our being a state of mind that predisposes us not in a good way to deal with it. It is as if bad input predisposes us to the situation because we have nothing to do with them, just happen, "we pass to us." We know what happens when our attitude is negative.
There is little possibility of being better. However, if we interpret the situation we are experiencing unwanted as a break, we have "the upper hand" or at least move towards it. The break (the unwanted situation) we are experiencing, can become negative or positive according to the interpretation we give to what happened. .